Luna shared recently about her grieve over the loss of Sulli and a close room-mate. Sulli, former FX member who lost her life by suicide last October had struggled with bullying. This is an exceptionally difficult time for Luna as she herself struggles with depression and anxiety attacks. She also shared that she was concerned that her confession would draw flak from her fans but fortunately she received tender and comforting responses instead.
Her honest sharing of how she feels is representative of how anyone who has lost a loved one will experience. Her words are peppered with ‘I should have’, ‘If only I had’ and a myriad of emotions that reflect guilt, regret and self-blame. Luna sang in the song ‘It Hurts and Hurt’, of laughing and crying together, of the memories that keep hurting. Hopefully, those memories will find new meaning and bring with it recollections of better times, and gratitude of having known the one that was lost.
If you are grieving or know of someone who is, this article may help you better understand what a person in bereavement would experience. Loss and Bereavement
Listen to Luna’s song ‘It hurts and hurts’ https://youtu.be/jsrXKAJ2tLQ
Image taken from Youtube video of ‘It hurts and hurts’