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Being ‘stupid in love’ with Max Schneider and Yun Jin from Le Sserafim

What happens when we are so “Stupid In Love”? Max Schneider and Yun Jin from Le Sserafim may have some insights on that


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Love is such a wonderful thing, isn’t it? It makes us feel like we can conquer the world with someone whom we truly enjoy being with. But how do we know that we aren’t blindsighted by all the dopamine rush and butterflies? 

Let’s find out!

Image taken from Youtube: MAX – STUPID IN LOVE (feat. HUH YUNJIN of LE SSERAFIM) [Official Lyric Video]

“Let’s get straight to “I do”

When we fall in love, we experience a surge of hormones and neurotransmitters that make us feel good, according to Dr. Marni Feuerman, a licensed psychotherapist from Insider.

“Such chemistry overrides our logical, rational thought. Which can lead you to do things you might not otherwise,” she says.

Research has also shown that Dopamine is present in high amounts at the beginning of a relationship when you cannot stop thinking about the other person. This can cause us to agree to things we may not normally be okay with.

Image taken from Instagram: @maxmusic

“What’d you think about sharing our last name?”

Look at these statements:

1) You lack trust generally, but trust easily romantically
2) You’re very understanding, even in love
3) You’re helpful, but lack boundaries
4) You’re independent in life, but codependent in love
5) You’re organised, but somewhat controlling in love
6) You’re caring, but neglect yourself in love
7) You have high empathy, but let it burden you

If you feel like you resonate with one or more of them, this could be an indication to re-evaluate your boundaries in the relationship!

Image taken from Instagram: @maxmusic

“So stupid in love with you (stupid rather, so calm down, stupid in love, I’m so stupid in love)/I’m so stupid in love”

You may find it hard to say no to your significant other and give in to their requests. Or you may find yourself worrying or thinking FOR your partner, and may start to revolve your life around them. You may also find yourself doing things that will attract their attention and gain their approval.

These actions touch on self-love, executing healthy boundaries, and our self-perception in relationships.

Wanting to make our partner feel loved and happy does not involve sacrificing our needs and boundaries!

I think what Max and Yun Jin are trying to say is that while being in love, we should not lose ourselves in the process!

Read more on love here:

K-pop Taeyeon’s advice on dealing with an ex

K-drama,Welcome to Samdal-Ri lessons on love

Is it really love?

Setting relationship boundaries

How do we know about what we can’t see

Gif taken from Instagram @maxmusic

 

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